Ramit Sethi: His New Netflix Show, How To Stand Out & Spend Your Money

I will say, like, the show came out, it was number 9 on all of Netflix the first day, number 6 the next day. And like, the reception has been insane. Like, way bigger than I ever thought.

Like, how many, how many messages are you getting?

Oh dude, I've given up on like, like, I usually get about, uh, 1,000 to 2,000 messages a day just generally, like including DMs, emails, everything. Because I'm on my newsletter and all this stuff. It, when I open up Instagram in the morning, it just keeps refreshing like over and over in my DMs. I feel like I could rule the world. I know I could be what I want to. I put my all in it like no days off.

Ramit, what's going on, man? We're live.

What's up, Sam?

Ramit from How to Teach— I Will Teach— How to Teach— What am I saying? Why can't I think of the name of your business?

Is this your intro you're giving me? You don't even know the name of my company? You better try that again.

I Will Teach You to Be Rich. You know why I confuse it all the time? It's because one of my favorite books of all time is Felix Dennis's, uh, and I always confuse you two. His is How to Get Rich. Well, right.

Well, you want to know something even more confusing? My new Netflix show is now called How to Get Rich.

Dude, what's going on?

What's up?

So you just had a show come out 2 days ago or 3 days ago, right? Yep. How, uh, it's on Netflix. How's it been? Are you like, have you noticed that like the revenue of your business or the podcast downloads that you have, are they going up?

You, uh, what percentage increase of, uh, downloads per episode has your pod gone from that?

Well, it hasn't even been out a week, so I can't even tell you yet, but—

Well, you can look at your current, your current numbers, can't you? Of the podcast?

I don't know. I guess I'm not as sophisticated as you.

I guess. Yeah.

Yeah.

I mean, I would've thought that you know how to log into things, but yeah, I understand. I guess I overestimated your ability.

Listen, I can only be good at a couple of things and then the rest I'm pretty deficient at them.

So I've known you, Ramit, for a while now, and I've been following you for, it feels like a decade. I don't remember what year you started doing it, but it feels like you've been, I mean, you've been, you were like one of the OG bloggers. So like basically—

Yeah, I started about 20 years ago.

Oh, it was 20 years ago. Wow. So basically I know my best friend is Neville. I met him because I was a fan of his blog and I found his blog because of Noah Kagan's blog. I found Noah Kagan's blog because of probably like Tim Ferriss. And then I probably found Tim Ferriss because of you. It was like this Illuminati of like businessy financial bloggers, but a little bit lifestyle-y. And you've been doing that. You were like the OG. I remember you like would teach classes, like you wrote a blog post, you would like, you hung up flyers on the Stanford campus and you're like, I'm going to do a personal finance class or something like that. And then that kind of like parlayed into one thing, which led to another thing. Now you've got this pretty big business. I've talked to a lot of people who work for you. It's a pretty like amazing company that you built. Then you came out with a podcast and you told me you're going to come out with a podcast. And I was like, okay, this sounds interesting. You're a little late to the game. You've been doing this for 20 years. Let's see, your podcast is actually amazing. You did something that I've always wanted to do, but I didn't think people would do it. So basically you could explain it, but you like tell, or people tell you all of their finances and they put their faces on the videos. So like, it's not really anonymous. Then you parlayed that into, you've had, you know, all these books along the way. You've parlayed that into just a brand new Netflix show. That's now one of the most popular in the country. I mean, you've done a lot of stuff, right?

Uh, I love your intro. That's like better than any intro I can give myself. So thank you. It sounds. So linear the way you say it. Like, I sat at a chessboard and just like mapped it out. But if you go into the, the details of it, like, it's actually crazy. For example, yeah, I did hang up flyers and I did try to get my friends in the dining halls in college to come to my free event, and nobody came for like a year and a half. Nobody would come to my events. Like, I would struggle to get people to come to get a free class on money. And I, you know, I got like a handful of people over a year and a half. And the reason for that, I later learned, is that people don't really like going to events about money. It makes them feel bad about themselves. And so I was like, okay, you know, when you're young and you're like really hungry, you go, this isn't working. Like the world needs to hear what I have to say. And so like you can either give up and sometimes you should, or you, in my case, I was like, these kids are so lazy. They don't even want to come to a free class. I'm just going to start a blog.. And so that, that's the path. It wasn't like flyers and then Netflix show. There's like a lot of, um, trying and failing in between the two.

But so you're only in your 20s when you're teaching that. I mean, what the hell did you know about money?

You saw the comment?

I fucking read every comment, dude. I love it. And they go, this guy's such an old fuddy-duddy. And what I really want to do, Sam, is come on here and, and let's go to the comment section and just see what happened to all these folks who lost 60% of their money. I wonder if they're— I wonder if they think the same thing. Yeah, anyway, it was a fun episode last time.

We, uh, I don't know if you heard the episode. I always give Sean a hard time because his opinion and my opinion on investing are totally opposites, but not totally opposites, but we agree, we disagree on a lot, but on the pod I was going, Sean, so look, if I made a bet with you, or like if I was a genie and I said, you can only, you can start your own company and invest your own money in your own company, but you can't buy crypto. You can't invest in startups. You can't do any like cash flowing things. You can't do anything. All you could do is put it into this one thing.

We'll call it an index.

Index fund, but whatever it is, and you get a regular return of 8% a year. Now it's regular. It's not, you know, the theoretical bit is that it's 8%, but it's lumpy, but let's just say 8% every single year, but you can't, you can't invest in anything else other than your business. Would you do that? And he was like, 100%, absolutely not. And in my head, I'm like, dude, that's like the greatest thing on earth. What are you talking about? That's the greatest thing.

Okay. I heard that episode. I was laughing so hard. I loved it. Actually, it's fun to hear two people with totally different opinions. I will say, although I'm like you, I'm a huge fan of index funds and average returns of 7 to 8% are actually phenomenal if you understand compound interest and time. That is a lot of money.

Does 8% double in 9 years?

Well, so my money right now, I basically have, um, you know, I sold my company to HubSpot stock and a lot of that was HubSpot stock.

How much did you sell it for, Sam? You gonna tell us?

Uh, no. Uh, I, I don't like talking about it.

Sam's so transparent with every other number on the show except for how much money is in his bank account. Sam, what's up with that?

The reported number was $27 million. And, uh, you know, it was more or less, it was, it was right around there. But here's the thing is that, no, I'm going to, I'll, I'll reveal it a little bit. Here's the thing, which is the sale. I received a whole bunch of HubSpot stock and 6 months, or you guys can, I think we sold February of 2 years ago. So you guys can go look at it. I think the stock was $367 when we sold. And then over the next year, as a bunch of my stock was like, you know, I got it monthly or quarterly or something like that. As I was getting it, it almost tripled. So, or doubled and a half. So it went up, it went up from $367, I think, to $870. And so the price like kind of materially changed. Of course, then it went back down to like $300. Now it's back up. But, um, So the price materially changed because of that, but here's the deal. So I own HubSpot stocks. I haven't sold a share. I didn't sell it when it was at its peak. I was like, I'm just never going to log in and look at it. We own Airbnb stock because my wife worked there and, or works there. And we, we got a bunch of that. And then besides that, I just own like the normal 80/20, uh, whatever. I don't even know what it's called, the normal Vanguard index fund. And then like some type of like bonds, whatever's the normal bonds. Besides that, then there's a little bit of real estate. But besides that, it's like nothing. I don't really own any. I've never actually sold a stock in my life.

And that's awesome.

That's awesome. I think it's awesome.

So you said something—

I totally agree with you.

You said something awesome on your show, which is people confuse— I forget how you phrased it, but you said something about making money versus managing money. And when I first started making money, I was like, oh great, now I'm very confident. I feel like I'm pretty good at making money. I'm in the 99th percentile of income, like making income. And then I was like, well, that's pretty easy. I could do this real estate thing and I can do this deal and this thing. And then I started getting into it and I'm like, Shit, I'm not great at that because I'm creative and I can invent things from scratch. But when it comes to investing, that's not always— it's more about due diligence and about running financial models. For a real estate company, oftentimes it's more close to just being really good at Excel than it is inventing something from scratch. And you said that on the show the other day when I was watching, and I thought that was amazing. And I didn't actually learn that until I made a few expensive mistakes of managing versus making. Oh, that's cool.

I don't, I'm not good at the spending thing. And like, there's been multiple times where I've called you and I'm like, I'm gonna go to Europe and you go, oh, I'll, I'll tell you what to do, but only one rule, no budget. Or I'll be like, uh, I wanna dress better. And you say, great, I'll have a list of cool stores. One rule, no budget. And yeah, you're pretty dogmatic on a, on a handful of things and you're somewhat—

well, to you, to you. I wouldn't say that to a school teacher. I say it to a rich dude who sold his company for a lot of money. So I go, listen, if you're gonna be, if you're gonna be looking at the price tags and and you're gonna be looking through the money lens of cost. Imagine you put on a pair of glasses and it's cost. I go, I'm not doing that with you. You're too rich. You can't be looking at cost. There are other money lenses for a guy like you to use, which is totally appropriate.

But when did you feel comfortable spending?

Late 20s, I started to make it a practice to get good. I'll give you an example, 'cause fitness, we both love fitness. Dude, I follow all your videos. I'm like, this guy, what are you doing, the combine or something? That was hilarious. So Sam, Sam's posting all this like insane stuff. He's doing like 60-inch vertical jump or whatever. It, it's like crazy. Your squats are like out of this world. I'm like, God, this guy, how does he do it? Anyway, you know, I had to have a little fun with Sam. So I go, hey Sam, nice, uh, 375 squat. Why don't you try practicing for a spelling bee and, uh, try something challenging, Sam.

Dude, I called you a douche and everyone thought we were actually actually angry at each other.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

So, but you're— you've always been comfortable? I mean, like, dude, I just feel guilty buying a $2,000, like, jacket. I— and also, it doesn't necessarily bring me joy, which is a whole nother thing. But I also definitely feel a sense of— now that's— yeah, that's like, I think, value, uh, that's viable, or that's a valid thing. But I don't—

I don't—

I feel guilty. You don't have guilt around some of the spending?

No, never. Let's talk about why. So when I was in my late 20s, I was like, okay, I want to learn how to get fit. I never knew about fitness when I was young. We didn't even use the word protein in my house. Like, we— it was not a thing.

Really? Yeah. No, like, that's— if you told my, my parents that a Coca-Cola has 40 grams of sugar, they'd be like, you might as well tell me there's a billion grams because I don't know what that means. You know what I mean?

Like, that means— yeah, okay, so same. So, so now I'm like really confused because I'm like, how does Sam look so good if he didn't even— well, I learned protein.

I learned like— what age? Uh, well, I was a college athlete, but, and so I knew about fitness. And then once I started, uh, once I left college and got fat, uh, then I married a woman who like cared about this stuff. And she kind of like taught me, she's like, hey, you know, just because this says low fat, that doesn't mean that that's good for you. And I was like, oh, true.

Or like, that's why men live longer.

Yeah. I was like, this Slim Jim is meat. Like, it's good for you. This is keto, right? Like, I didn't know, you know what I mean? It's like, gogurt is yogurt, therefore it's good.

Totally. Okay, so when I didn't even, like, I didn't have the college athlete thing. I did, you know, I did well in school or whatever, but when I graduated, I said, I wanna start like getting fit. And it was like my mid-20s. I had a friend at work. I was like, dude, can you show me how to like work out? So I was pretty skinny. I was a really skinny guy. And you hear clues in the world, whether it's with work or with fitness or whatever, the world gives you clues as to where you stand. And that can be true even in meetings. Like if somebody shows up 5 minutes late repeatedly, that's a clue. Maybe you're lower on the power totem pole and you've kind of gotta learn to read the clues to know where you stand. And I remember multiple people when I was in college calling me skinny. Now as a guy, that's actually not a good thing to be called. At least I didn't like it.. And so I just thought, oh, I'm genetically skinny. You know, that's just how I am. Skinny Indian guy. Hahaha. But I didn't want to do it anymore. And so a friend of mine showed me how to work out and he was like, okay, do you like to eat, um, like spaghetti? I was like, yeah. He's like, do you like bread? I was like, yeah. He's like, do you like milk? I was like, okay. He goes, hmm, yeah, you need to eat all of that. And I was like, huh? And that, that was just like, oh, what I thought I was doing was actually not getting me the goals I wanted. So I started to eat more. I actually started to track it, and I realized what I thought I was eating was totally off base. Just common for all of us. But it took me until my late 20s when I moved to New York, and I get there and like, everyone looks great. Yeah, just everybody looks good fashion-wise, fitness. I'm like, did everyone attend a class that I was absent for? How the hell does everybody know how to hem their pants correctly? And so I lived right by a gym It took me 4 months to get the courage to walk into that gym and say, I want a personal trainer. It had nothing to do with money. I had money, but I knew that once I said that, I would actually have to follow through. And so I finally got the courage. 4 months. I walk across the street, go in the gym, pick this guy, the random trainer who happened to be walking by. He was actually great strength trainer, and I ended up training with him for about 5 years. And I learned so much before I switched over to bodybuilding and training a little different. But that, that was like starting to pay for value. And I realized, oh my God, there you can get better results. You can get faster results. Sometimes if you pay for a different restaurant, you get a better experience. And that was important to me. While at the same time, there are other things I just don't care about and I don't pay for it at all.

On the show, there was, there's this couple. They're like maybe only 38 or 39. They're, but they're grandparents. I forget their names.

Um, Yeah, Monique and Donnell.

Yeah. And I, and they're very likable, but I got so angry watching them because on the show, they, you sit and I, I hate this experience that what you, what you did with these people, because it happens to me sometimes. They sat down and they expressed everything they want in life, or at least everything they want help from. And they say, we struggle with this. And you say, all right, here's the plan. Does everyone agree to the plan? And they go, yes, we totally agree to this plan. This will help us get to where we want to go. That plan includes selling a whole bunch of stuff from a storage unit. It includes not spending a certain amount of money. And so not buying— I think he was spending $500 or $600 a month on video games or something crazy. And then you fast forward 2 weeks later and he orders this big box and they open the box and there's literally like 8 pairs of jeans. And like a $120 pair of shoes. And you're like, what the hell, man? We, you said you wanted this. And we agreed that the actions are this. And, and then he tries to like justify, he goes, but I need these jeans. And there's literally 8 pairs of them. Then there's this other woman who has this $1.1 million house. She goes, I'm, I'm, you know, my kids are grown now. I don't need this huge house. I'm gonna sell it and get a smaller house just cause I don't wanna take care of this. Fast forward a few weeks later, She sold the house, she went and bought a $2.2 million house that's even bigger. And she goes, yeah, but I need this. And it pissed me off so much that these people were doing this. And I was like, what the hell, guys? Where's the discipline in this? And I think that that's like a huge difference between like some people and other people that like achieve certain things. I just want to like nail it in their heads. Like, you guys, you realize how like you're, you're a hypocrite to yourself right now. Uh, you know what I mean?

Uh, well, I— so I'll tell you, you know, when I was in my early 20s, starting with my, you know, showing people how to invest and stuff, I was super judgmental, like super. And it's like, oh my God, like, you need to open up a Roth IRA. Do you understand how 7% compounds? And I could actually see people's eyes glaze over. I could basically see their soul leave their body. I'm just like, oh, this isn't connecting. But but I didn't know how to read the clues. I thought if I push them harder, if I show them another chart, they'll get it. Um, and I can tell you that that doesn't work. And so when you're saying that you hated this, I'm actually smiling because I kind of love that. I love when people say one thing and do another because to me it's like that beautiful contradiction of humanity. All of us say we want something and we do something different. And to me it's like a puzzle. Okay, I know that you're doing that in the domain of money. I totally get it. I've seen it a million times. So how can I figure out a way to reach you which gets you to see the contradiction and change your behavior, not me to impose it on you? Totally different view, and I think much more effective. That's what you see on the show.

Yeah, well, you were patient and like, it just, but it's still, and it angered me because I liked them. They're very likable and you want them to win. It's like Ramit's show. It's kind of like Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, but for like money, like you like root for, like, it's like, oh, we're going from zero to hero or like, we're taking like someone who's like, you know, cute, but you know, we take the glasses off and all of a sudden she's a model. You know what I mean? It's like, like a, like a high school movie, but like you root for them, but I'm like, you guys, this is so obvious. These mistakes that you're making, it's Angering me that you're, that this is gonna make you not achieve what you want to achieve. And that like irked me so much watching that. Not irked, but it frustrated me.

Well, I like that. I like, I want you and I want ev all the millions of people watching it to feel something. That, that alone is a win because money, we don't usually feel anything except overwhelm and shame. So I like that you're watching this and going, God, this is so obvious. Now I will say you have built discipline over like decades. You have been practicing at it, right, for a long time. Some of us don't even grow up with discipline in our lives. Like, I grew up with discipline around reading a spelling book literally for 2.5 hours a day. I, I could do that and I did very well at that. But the discipline to be empathetic, I didn't really grow up with that. I was like a utilitarian type of guy. Uh, so I think that it's fun to watch them. And like, it's fun to watch people have to find their own path to get where they're going. And you know what? People are people. Some people do it, some people don't. That's kind of the beauty of humanity. Not everyone is going to succeed, and that's, that's how it goes.

The other interesting thing was the same couple that I'm referring to, they had this— so these folks, I think their annual, their household income maybe was $90,000 a year, and This woman about that, this woman quit her job, did this woodworking thing, which is awesome. But they had this storage unit that I think cost $400 a month. And we open up the storage unit and it's, sorry folks, if you're listening, it was, it's garbage. It was like an old used microwave. It was like plastic, like toys and like containers from Target. Like it was just junk. Like the amount at which they probably spent in 2 months was worth more than the entire stuff. And it, and it was like. Dude, why aren't you selling this microwave? And he goes, well, I need it. And that also bothered me because, dude, Americans have so much crap. This couple I think is very normal, is very average. And I was shocked at how much stuff people have. And it made me want to go through my closet and just get rid of everything. I'm like, dude, we don't need any of this junk. Not only does it not make you happy, it brings you down. It was just so much stuff. Was that normal that you saw people with so much stuff?

Yeah. Okay. So I had never gone into people's houses until a few years ago with my business. And I had had offers from producers and stuff to go into someone's house, but it was always this sort of like, go into this couple's house and then like finger wag at them and tell them all the things they're doing wrong. It's just not my vibe. I don't want to do that. I'd actually ask them like, what do you love spending on? Let's go do more of that. Come on. You want a nice bag? 'Cool, let me show you how to get more.' And finally, there was a producer who is a friend of mine, and she said, like, 'Come on, you really got to come out. This one's special.' So they drove me to New Jersey, and I went into this young woman's apartment. It was a new apartment complex, very nice. She had a Jeep outside. And the minute she opened the door, I thought to myself, 'I should have done this 10 years ago,' because You can tell so much by going into the entryway of someone's house. Okay. At the time I was living in Manhattan, most of my friends had somewhat similar apartments to me. We kind of live in a similar way. When I walked into her apartment, there were beautiful candles, like nice Diptyque-style candles. There were probably 15 or 20 of them. Those are very expensive. So I'm taking it in. Okay, cool. She loves candles. There was a gigantic TV. Okay, that's pretty interesting. Uh, and I asked her to pull up on her phone and read off the top 10 emails in her inbox. It was like Target, Pier 1, you know, whatever stores. This starts to tell you a lot about someone. It's basically clues and like, you may see a living room. I see how much percentage of her net income is going to fixed costs, and I'm able to start to figure out what's really going on with her. Um, with folks like on the show, you can totally see the amount of stuff people have, and after a while that stuff starts to control them. When I ask people like, what's your rich life? Almost nobody says a bunch of $10 items from Target. I can guarantee that. They might say, I love a beautiful sweater, I love trips with my kids, et cetera. I go, cool, let's spend more on that and let's cut back on the stuff that you don't care about. And that really resonates with people.

Yeah, it's just like I grew up in Missouri. I grew up in a very normal household. All my friends growing up were normal. And then I go back and I look at like how I grew up and where my friend like, oh my God, like my parents have a stereo that still has a cassette tape player. Like, and I don't think they've turned this on in 15 years. And it's like, I'm like, hey, Mom and Dad, You should throw that away. It doesn't even work. And they go, oh, but, you know, we're going to— I'm like, you guys, you don't have a tape. You don't even have a cassette. You can't play anything on this.

We had, um, Neil Patel on the pod and he, like, people got so angry at him because he goes, I spend, I think he said he spends $200,000 a month in monthly expenses., and he broke that down. And then we had another person come on and do the same thing. I think, I think I spend, me personally, I think I don't have a kid. I think we spend $20,000 to $30,000 a month. And I remember like when I was 22 starting my company, I spent $2,000 a month including rent, like nothing. And I remember thinking like, if I, $20,000 a month, I, I can't even, I can't even imagine what I would spend with $20,000 a month. Now that I spend $20,000 or $30,000 a month, I think, oh yeah, I could make a dent with $100,000 a month. Like I could, I could, I could use that. Anything above that, I actually think it's challenging, but maybe I'll find my way one day. How much do you think you spend a month and have you found thresholds of like, this doesn't feel any better than this lower number?

Oh, this is a great question. Well, I think that thresholds are to me less interesting than what are the things that I love to spend a lot of money on and what are the things I don't care about. And I'm like extremely polarized and I actually want everyone to be polarized. So for me, the worst is if people go, I spend a little bit here, I spend a little bit there, or I try to cut back 5% here and 5% there. I'm just like, that sucks. That's not an effective strategy and it's not even fun.

So you say this concept of— you, you say don't do $5 problems, do $30,000 problems, I think. Is that right? Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Let's do this with you, Sam.

Okay.

What is your, what, what do you love spending on? What's the one thing?

Uh, flying first class. Uh, so when I, when I fly, when I fly, I like to, if it's above 3 hours, I, it's first class. Uh, I don't love it. I don't, I don't like fancy hotels, but I like nice Airbnbs because I like apartments over like a smaller hotel. Uh, I like spending on, um, like when I like to go out to eat, I love leaving huge tips. So if it's a good service, I like doing like 100% tips. Love it. I like toys. So like four-wheelers and motorcycles. I love action sports and things like that. What else do I like? And I like services.

You got your gym?

Yeah, I got my gym. Oh yeah. So a gym would be somewhat like a toy, but I love services. So I spend $400 a month for a trainer. I spend another $600 a month for like a doctor who I can just ask, like, or sorry, nutritionist. So I can ask questions to a nutritionist, cleaners. Someone to come and cook. I love services and like an assistant, someone who will do my laundry, like all types of services, but not too many things.

Services. So convenience.

Great. Love it. I, I'm the same. Convenience is my money dial. I love it. I'm obsessed with it. People think like I'm a serial killer when they hear how I dial all my stuff in, but like, I don't care. That's what I love. Okay, here's the question number 2. If you were to quadruple the amount you spent on that money dial, what would your life look like and feel like?

Uh, I think it would actually be awesome. So like, for example, right now I have a service that does my laundry and brings it to my door. And then I have, uh, this wonderful woman who cleans my house, but she doesn't put my laundry away. And so what I would love to do is just say, hey, I'll pay you more money. Just make sure that my closet is always organized and my clothes are put away because my clothes will just leave, stay like nicely folded on the floor in my closet. So small things like that. Or, or, uh, uh, like if my dog goes to the bathroom outside, like I sometimes I'll forget to clean it up and then I'll realize there's a bunch of it. I'm like, oh, I gotta go clean it up. It's nice to have someone to come and just handle all of that. So someone just to handle all types of cleaning and, uh, organizing my house. I would love that.

Okay. I think I like your answers, but I think you got to dream a little bigger. You could get all that with like $100 a week.

Dude, I—

Look at Sam's face. Everybody, everybody look at Sam's face. He's like lost right now. Go ahead. I'm going to take you with me on this.

I think I'm quite bad at like dreaming big.

Yes, that's why I'm here.

All right, Sensei, what do we do now?

What else would you do? I said quadruple, not add $100 a week.

I would have an assistant come to my home twice a week and we would go through my to-do list.

Love it. What else? Think about traveling. Think about cleaning your car. Think about how you travel with your family.

It would be awesome to fly private occasionally with my whole nucleus fam— my nuclear family.

And who would coordinate all of that right now? Me. Well, not in this quadruple scenario.

Who am I gonna have? I'm gonna say Amanda, me and my family want to go from St. Louis to New York around this date. Hook it up. There's gonna be 8 of us. Just tell me when to show up or have a car there.

Love it, love it. And then, um, you mentioned that you love tipping, which I love too. I am a huge fan of huge tips. I've told people like part of your rich life very likely should be generosity. How would that fit in? Like the person who cleans your house, what might you do in terms of spending more there?

Um, I would probably, so like over Christmas I gave her a $200 bonus. Um, I think it would've been cool to say, here's $1,000, just thanks.

There you go. All right. Love it. This is awesome. Okay. So for, again, for everybody listening, the question is you already identified your money dial, the thing you love. Now what if you could quadruple your spending? Now I'll tell you what I loved about Sam's answer and then I'll tell you what was different about Sam's answer than most people's answer. So Sam was immediately like, oh, he knew exactly what he would do. He's like, my clothes sit on the floor of my closet, which by the way is barbaric, Sam. That's so— he goes, I'm gonna get someone to hang them up. Okay, great.

By the way, I love that. All— I feel like most of my friends, my closest friends are Indians. The Indians that I'm friends with, like Neville, they're always immaculate. There's never clutter. Of course there's never clutter.

Oh yeah. Well, Yeah, and they— their clothes are— yeah, well, it's that— thank you for saying that. Immaculate. I love that. I'll take that. The immaculate.

I was just at Neville's house today and I'm like, Neville, you never have clutter. You just— it's always— everything's perfect.

Wow, Neville, my man. Okay, he's gonna be so happy to hear this, man. It's like two people talking about you behind your back and actually saying nice things.

No, he's immaculate.

What does your, you know, the phrase like everyone thinks, or a lot of people I imagine see, I Will Teach You to Be Rich, and they think this guy's a douche.

And then whenever you change it and you say, wait, hold on, I've never, I've never heard anyone say that. That's actually shocking to me. No, I'm just kidding.

They say that.

Yeah, they go, they go, yeah, thank you. The number one way people introduce me on Reddit is they go, Hey, uh, you should read this guy's book. It's called I Will Teach Rich. I know it sounds like a huge scam, but it's actually not. And I, you know, it's been 20 years or whatever, 10 years. I go, all right, fine. I accept it.

Well, you come up with this good line that is 100% redeems yourself, which is it's about living like, what's your rich life? Which is totally great because you're like, no, it's money's a component, but like your rich life could be anything. And so that's actually quite redeeming. Your rich life, you said, is like, Convenience. So what is your, like, I don't know, how do we say this without sounding lame? Your convenience stack. Like, what is your, what is your, like, what's that look like? And what's, and what's your budget for that?

I have an unlimited budget for the things that are important to me.

Quit yanking my leg. Quit being academic. How much do you spend a month for, like, this amazing setup?

Well, I don't, first of all, I don't think on a monthly basis. So, you know, I don't want anyone to be thinking on a monthly basis except for your conscious spending plan. So in order to have a bigger perspective, you need to think on an annual perspective minimum. So for me, I would spend, uh, well, if I factor it all in, probably hundreds of thousands of dollars per year on convenience.

So break it down for you. Is $300,000 the right number or is it on the upper side of that?

It's hard to say. Let me give you an example. Like if I stay at an amazing hotel, which I love, would that be part of convenience? It's quite pricey. Or would it be part of like luxury or experience? I don't know, but I'll, I'll tell you like the big components of it. So I wanna wake up in the morning and I want every single thing in its place, so much so that if I go blind, I know exactly where everything is. So that means my food is ready. That means that my calendar invitations have the link in the same place, which takes me to the exact same thing. It's all convenience. My meetings are scheduled. Um, when I travel, I have an assistant who's amazing.

Um, when I travel, is that a W-2 employee or— Yes. Okay.

W-2. Um, a very experienced, seasoned executive assistant who knows how to work with other executives, who knows how to work with everybody in my life. Um, so she would be responsible for everything from day-to-day meetings, scheduling haircuts, um, complex, uh, travel planning, interacting with a travel advisor, things like that. And she knows my preferences, so we document it all. She knows if I'm flying a 4-hour flight, this is the type of seat— this is the exact seat I'm gonna sit on. And what I love about having an assistant is they become your, basically your spokesperson or your right-hand person. And so they have to be able to interact with people at CEO levels and at every level. Um, so that, that's super important for me. Um, when we— when I travel, I have a travel protocol. It gets activated. So it means like she will handle my email a little differently. Um, if I go— if I'm going somewhere, I'll have food sent ahead to the hotel if I'm staying in certain locations. So it's like healthy food. I can try to stay on plan as much as possible. Uh, things like that. So we, over time, we just document it and it just becomes like part of an SOP.

Didn't you guys have like a program on like working with someone like that?

I still have it. It's called Delegate and Done. And this is like how to hire an assistant, like the 35+ things that my assistant does, and actually how to run our meetings, like exactly how we run our weekly check-in meetings. Yeah, we have all that stuff, all templates. It's awesome.

I'm gonna buy this. This is good. All right. What else?

We'll give you a link for the show notes, but that's for people who are like, I want a, a smoothly running system. I want an assistant who's smart. I'm not looking for the cheapest, I'm looking for the best, and I want to empower them to be able to handle everything for me. That, that's awesome.

What else?

What else is there? Oh, training. So I have a personal trainer. He's awesome. And like, I go there and train with him. We have goals for the show. For example, I knew exactly what I wanted to look like. And it was funny because I went in to get fitted for some clothes. My wife was styling me and I went in and I was like, okay, this is the size I'm going to be. And I was way bigger than that size at that time.

Were you, were you fat or muscle?

A little of both. I was bulking, so I was more muscle, but I still had put on some fat and I knew I was going to start cutting. And they were like trying to be very polite to me, but they were like, we would recommend you don't go like that small. And I was like, Listen, I'm a professional and I know exactly what I'm going to— and they were like trying to be really polite about it, but I could see them exchanging glances with each other. I was dying. I was loving it because, you know, everyone says that, like when you're going in for a wedding fitting or whatever, you're like, yeah, I'm going to lose like 15 pounds and like no one does.

So they're like, of course I was not telling you to lose weight, but step on the scale and subtract 15 and just be that. Yeah.

Yeah. I was laughing so hard. It's so hard because my wife, we've like, we've trained and like, we know what, you know, kind of what we trained for our wedding, for example. So we know the process and I was very confident. My trainer's awesome, etc. And so I went back in for the first fitting. Nobody believed me. I was like, just do what I said, please. And then I came in for the next fitting and I wanted to play a trick on them. So I was like, from the fitting room, I was like, oh my God, this doesn't fit at all. But it actually like Everything fit perfectly. And so that is an example where like getting help, right, for convenience, for what's the look, what's the training protocol, that kind of stuff is important.

Was it, uh, was filming the show what you thought it was going to be? I mean, what's— Sean always wanted to have a Netflix show. Uh, I mean, what do people—

Oh, I should talk to him about it.

Yeah.

Um, okay, so I have filmed before, like in a studio with my crew, things like that. This was completely different. Like, it was on a whole nother level. So I'll give you some examples. The week before the show started filming, they finally found an office in LA, literally one— 7 days before, and they designed it. And they were like, come on in and walk through it and give us your feedback on the design. So first of all, they designed it in 24 hours. That means they took a blank office and put a full design in there. So I walked in and I was like, Uh, it looks like a white person is selling their Airbnb. Like, it has like all geometric shapes on the like wood. I'm like, no, it's not me.

Like a Live, Laugh, Love sign, like a neon sign.

Yes, exactly.

I was like, uh, simplify.

So then, yeah, uh, yeah, exactly.

Um, work.

I was like, we're not doing this. No, not for a Netflix show. So then they were like, oh, well, do you have any suggestions for us? Of course I had a Pinterest board of like interior design home offices that I pulled out. And my style is wood, stone, Japanese design, minimalism, and basically like an unlimited budget. And they took one look at that and they just started laughing because they're like, dude, what are you talking about? We have a budget and we have like 2 days to finish this office. So anyway, we hashed it out. We came up with something that I think looks pretty good. And, um, when I went in the first day, The crew, when I'm shooting just in an office, which is a totally controlled environment, there could have been like 30 people. That is huge. Multiple cameras, sound, producers, makeup. It's embarrassing.

Uh, uh, like having a— yeah, it's like, it's like you're performing. It's like you're acting, really. Not just like shoot the shit, or not shoot the shit, but you know, whatever you do when you normally record. You're like having a conversation with someone. Dude, if 30 people were around me, I would be like, dude, I feel like a, like an animal in the zoo.

Yeah, well, it's funny you say that. I like day to day doing like what we're doing right now. I love it. I feel really comfortable chatting with you or doing an Instagram thing, but being in the limelight, especially in public or for things like my birthday, I have never felt comfortable. I like actually dread it. And even for for my 40th birthday, I was dragging my feet, like dragging it, even though it's like rich life and like I always love bringing my friends and family together. And my wife noticed this and she's like, "What is wrong with you?" And I go, "I don't know." I was so indecisive. She goes, "Do you want me to just plan it for you?" And when she said that, it was like the magic words, like, "Yes, please." Because this one thing in my life I just feel so uncomfortable doing. And once she started to do it, like it all took off. I was thrilled. Um, so this show was like, for the first few days I felt a little uncomfortable. The other unexpected part was, um, going to people's houses. Okay. People open up their houses. It's the most intimate thing you can do in America is to open up your home and talk about money. Like, most, most, more Americans would be comfortable talking about their sex lives than their credit card debt. That's actually research. And so to really know how to make people feel comfortable with a camera crew and producers and all that, that took some learning. But overall, I thought the crew was amazing. They really helped me feel good and kind of come into my own.

Do you get paid directly to do it, or are you hoping that, like, is this just marketing for everything else you do?

I get paid. I get paid as Um, talent, which is what they call somebody who would be a host. So Hollywood term is talent. And then I'm also an EP or executive producer on the show as well. So that's great. There is— yeah, yeah.

And will they fill you in on how many people watched it, or is Netflix— I think they're like notorious for not like telling you stuff, right?

Correct. They, they— there are some, uh, things that they release, but they don't typically share actual numbers. Um, I will say like the show came out, it was number 9 on all of Netflix the first day, number 6 the next day. And like the reception has been insane, like way bigger than I ever thought.

Like how many, how many messages are you getting?

Oh dude, I've given up on like, like I usually get about, uh, 1,000 to 2,000 messages a day just generally, like including DMs, emails, everything. Cause I, I'm on my newsletter and all this stuff. When I open up Instagram in the morning, it just keeps refreshing like over and over in my DMs, and I'm like, what am I supposed to do with this? I don't even know.

You, um, you, uh, have been like on— I've noticed on Twitter, we've been friends for a while on Twitter, you've become more polarizing, and I have a feeling that part of that is on purpose. Is that true?

Like, you mean polarizing because of politics?

Yeah. But also, like, for example, I agree with you for the home. So like, you and I agree that buying a home, you should do it because you want it, not because it's a good investment, because the numbers show it's actually not a good investment. It could be a good investment, but that's mostly luck every once in a while. But do it because you want to, and at best, assume it's a good, great store of value, but it's not necessarily going to be like a wonderful return, you know? Uh, but like, you'll tweet like, look at this. I think you'll say like, look at this moron, they think X, Y, and Z. What are these idiots going to believe this?

Or no, no, no, hold on. I do not say that, but I do not say that. I would never call someone—

you say that about political stuff. You say that about political stuff. Sorry. I, I, but, but you are harsh on the home buying thing and you're also harsh on other topics. You're not harsh on, uh, that thing, uh, the home buying thing, but you're like, you will call people morons for mostly political stuff, I think.

But okay, I guess I have something against right-wing extremism. So yeah, I'm pretty straightforward and direct about that, which is like, I don't accept it and like, fuck that. And if I talk about raising taxes on the rich, including me, I go, yeah, we should. I should. I pay historically low taxes. We should. And people are kind of shocked when they hear a guy with money going, Oh, I actually enjoy paying my taxes. I feel really good about 'em. And we should, uh, actually raise taxes. People are like, what the hell? They also feel shocked when they hear a money guy saying like, buying a house actually might not be the best investment. So it's funny, I will say like when I talk about real estate, I definitely mix it up. And sometimes people will go like, Ramit, you're so negative about buying a house. And I go, the fact that you think my advice, which is run the numbers on the biggest purchase of your life is negative tells you how far the Overton window has shifted. That if someone says you should actually calculate the biggest purchase of your life, that's being negative. I go, no, no, no, no, no, no, you have to run the numbers. And as you and I know, Sam, a lot of times it's like not that great of an investment. Index funds could often, not always, but often outperform more often.

So more often.

But your political thing, that's like on your list of things to do to stick out, right? You have a list here of how to stand out and you say unconventional decisions stand out, talk politics.

Yes.

Talk politics. Yes, that's what I meant.

Let's talk about it.

Yeah.

Yeah. So I had this YouTube video I did many years ago, which was like, why I don't talk about politics. I think it's still up on YouTube. And I was like, hey guys, I am like, you know, I'm not going to talk about it. And I had my reasons. And 2016 happened and I was like, no way, no fucking way. Not in the country I grew up in where we have comments like, let's ban Muslims. Until we figure out what's going on. I go, what the fuck? This is, this is crazy. I study— and you know what I studied in college, right? I studied propaganda, social influence and persuasion, cults. I studied that. And I start to see the same dynamics happening here. I go, if I can't speak up, a first-generation successful guy who was lucky and also worked hard, became successful, you know, in the ways business and all this stuff. If I can't do it, then who can? And so I started to do it and people flipped out. The first few posts I made were like, stick to finance. I go, first of all, they always are the same type of people who tell me this. And they expect because of the way I look, they expect me to kind of roll over and be like, oh, sorry, you're right. You're right. I come right back at them. I go, I'm not going to stick to anything. This is my feed. And I'll tell you exactly what's going on. By the way, I happen to know a little bit more about this than you. And they are shocked. And I post their comments to me. It's quite illuminating when you see. So over the last like 5, 6 years, I've actually had like thousands of conversations, thousands of political conversations. Why? Because I actually don't get the chance to talk to people like this in real life. People who go like, um, Uh, we should like cut all taxes. Taxes are theft. And then I go like, tell me why. Like, what about the roads you drive on? Who should do that? And I really get to understand, get inside their minds. And sometimes I post the conversations because I want you to see a lot of people go, we should like, we should reason, we should have conversations. I go take a look at these conversations. Like, I'm very patient with them. But yeah, I do think that, um, people are afraid to talk about their genuine political beliefs, or to say like, this is actually wrong, um, because they're worried about what's going to happen to their business. My business is based on my reputation, and I go, look, if you're going to leave— if, if you don't agree that young people should have access to voting rights, then don't buy my book. I'm totally fine with you leaving my community. And I believe that.

But you have a list of other things on here, and some of the things I, uh, I wanted to talk about— so what's the DNS list, do not sell list, and how does that make you stand out?

Oh, so Well, when you—

so let's—

the whole concept of standing out is the world wants you to be vanilla.

I sold out my business. Have you noticed? I see, I say that line all the time on this.

Yeah, I still appreciate you saying it. Okay.

Yeah.

Thank you, everyone. Make sure you hear that credit.

No, I give credit. But you, you— that line does— the world wants you to be vanilla. I use that all the time. And I'm vanilla, by the way. I could say it.

No, I don't actually— I don't think so. Okay, look. Vanilla means the world wants you to be like everybody else, and it comes out in peculiar ways, right? The world wants you to be vanilla. They go, uh, Sam, you're throwing money away on rent. You should buy a place. Vanilla. And now for some people, buying a house makes perfect sense, but if you're 23 years old, you don't know where you're gonna be in 3 years. It doesn't make any sense. Um, the world wants you to be vanilla. They tell me, Ramit, you should stop cursing on your, um, YouTube videos. I go, but that's how I talk. And sometimes I hear stuff that's crazy. What do you want me to say? You want me to stop because of the algorithm? No, I'm not living my life by an algorithm. The world wants you to be vanilla. When they told me, Ramit, you shouldn't sell programs, that's scammy. You should give it all away for free. I go, no, this is a profitable business, and I'm totally comfortable charging thousands of dollars for programs that are gonna change your life, start a business, find a dream job. One of the things we did was, um, we decided early on that we are going to be highly selective about who we allow to be our customers.

Oh, I remember this.

Highly selective.

Yeah. Didn't you have like a guy who was like, I'm going into credit card debt buying your stuff, and you go, you're banned, you can't buy our stuff anymore?

You say, uh, don't be the first mover. Wait to write a book, start making money, follow your natural tendencies. So for example, I love slow, long-term thinking. So that's what you're going to do. And you'd, so you'd be horrible at starting clubs in Miami. And then you have a framework of fast, deep, and long. So I agree with the first mover thing. The write a book thing, I actually agree with too. Writing a book seems like a pain in the ass, by the way. And what, start making money.

What do you mean? Well, I think that sometimes we, um, people believe I need to build up like this huge long, um, audience before I start making money. And that's actually what I did. And I, in retrospect, it caused me a lot of hardship, uh, because I was writing for free in 2004, 5, 6. And when I finally sold something for $5, it was a $4.95 ebook. I was petrified of selling. I had a pretty decent-sized audience and a lot of people got pissed off at me, really mad because they basically saw me as the free information guy. And when I tried to redefine the dynamics of that relationship, people do not like that. It would've been much better if I'd started off and I was like, hey, this is actually gonna be a business. It would've taught me like, focus on the metrics that matter, focus on things that matter. And it also would've set the expectation with my audience. So I went through a lot, like I went through 2.5, 3 years of people unsubscribing from my list every day. I was using AWeber at the time, so you can see the reasons that they unsubscribe. So every morning I woke up, there's like 75 people. They're like, you suck, you're a sellout. And I was like, wait, what? I still give away 98% of my stuff for free. I'm selling a $5 ebook. And they were furious. And that was my fault, not theirs.

Listen to Sam. I wish I had learned that, Sam, like early on. I did not. I had the same sort of thinking like, oh my gosh, monetizing will turn people off. And what I didn't realize is, first of all, if you're turning them off by trying to make a living. Then you've got the wrong audience. Better to know that early than later. And a lot of times people actually like it. Like they want to know what you recommend. So that was interesting. But most of all, if you have money, it enables you to build a better business, better people, better design, better talent, better all of it. And I didn't get that for a few years. I wish I had.

Uh, we'll wrap up in a second 'cause I know you're, we're at, we're, we're at the hour, but One last question, which is sometimes people come to me and they'll be like, you know, my personal brand is really tied up in my company's brand and that will make it hard because maybe I want to sell my company. So have you ever thought about selling I Will Teach You to Be Rich? Would you ever sell it? And is it sellable being so tied to you?

I don't think it's sellable in the way that I would need to maintain my reputation. I have had, um, some interest in selling the business. Um, I remember I got invited— I was at a party in New York, and this kind of mysterious guy comes up to me, and he had a very generic name, and he, he was like, oh, nice to meet you. But he knew a lot about my business, like more than any normal person would know. He knew like the way I structured my funnels. He knew basic conversion rates. I was like, who in the hell is this guy? He goes, hey, I'm gonna be in town in a couple weeks. I'd love to get together for breakfast. I was like, cool. So, you know, I was like pretty young guy. I was working out of coffee shops, stuff like that. He invites me to the Four Seasons in Midtown for breakfast. I was like, what the hell?

He knew how to tickle your fancy, man. You like fancy hotels.

Bingo.

Is there any financial or business goals that you have as a North Star where you're like, you know, in 10 years it would be cool if we did this?

Um, I'm in a— I guess I didn't expect Netflix to happen. Like, I was not gunning for it. It just happened. So, um, I wanted to reach more people. That was my goal. And I've now reached more people in the last week than I have in probably 10 years, which is like my— I'm still trying to sit with that. Um, so I probably need to recalibrate where I want to go. But I'll tell you, like, one thing I know, like, from doing the podcast is Um, when I started the podcast, I sat down, I wrote a vision document. I never really do this, and I wrote it because I knew that we were gonna have to get a lot of people involved, like, uh, editors and guests and everybody. And I was like, you know what? I need to just write down my exact vision. So I was like, here's what the podcast is. Here's 20 sample, uh, titles that I wanna do. Here's the type of people. Here's what it's not. It's not a podcast about compound interest calculations.. And when I wrote that, I realized that number one, the podcast has to be fun for me. If it's not fun, I'm not doing it. And I would imagine you have a similar thing. Like once you make a certain amount of money, you go, okay, like what is the other meaning? It's gotta be fun. And if it's not, or it's not like reaching the right people, I'm just not into it.

One, I, you know, for everything bad he's done, he said something amazing, which is Kanye West said something, uh, He goes, uh, I do dope shit. And, uh, or, you know, there he was. There's a story of him with Dave Chappelle and Dave Chappelle's, uh, you know, Kanye's backstage at Dave Chappelle's show. Someone calls Kanye and Dave is retelling the story and Dave goes, or Kanye goes, hey, yeah, I can't really talk right now because I'm backstage with Dave Chappelle watching never seen before clips of his show right now. And then he goes, yeah, because my life's dope and I do dope shit. And he just hung up. And then he like, and then he like, you know, like in the past couple of years, he gave this interview. He's like, money's cool, but like, I just want to do dope shit. And he like keeps repeating this.

Like, listen, I need to start talking like this now. I'm like, I'm like, what kind of celebrity shit do I need to say now that I have a show? Like, what do I need to know? Meanwhile, I'm just this internet dork who sits On Twitter, I make a joke about real estate or asset allocation, and then I'm like, all right, that was a good day. I go take a nap on the couch. I'm like, I got to learn what these guys are doing.

Well, me and Sean have a joke, but I truly live this way. I'm like, would my 12-year-old be proud of the shit that I'm doing now? You know what I mean? Like, am I?

Because like, I've heard you talk about this. It's, it's crazy when you said it like that. Would my— what your 12-year-old self or my 12-year-old self Like, I heard you say this the other day. I went home, I told my wife, and I told her, like, my 12-year-old or even 20-year-old self would not believe it. Would not believe that I'm married to you. Would not believe that we travel the way we travel, that I have a business like this, like a team that's like awesome.

You can like talk celebrities and shit. Yeah, it's awesome.

Yeah, yeah. By the way, I'm getting these DMs from celebrities, like athletes. You know, I don't know anything about sports, right? Same.

And they're always like, I saw you tweeted. You're like, I'm from the Phillies or something.

Yeah, I'm from the Eagles. And I'm like, is that a basketball team? And like, they don't even reply. I'm like, this is— I'm like, dude, I'm not equipped for this world. Like all these— oh dude, it was so funny when, when, um, when Netflix emailed me when the, the first time They emailed me, they were like, oh, hi, like, you know, we'd love to talk to you about a project. Do you have representation or should we like speak to you directly? And I was like, what the hell is representation? Like, I didn't even know what they were talking about. Like, I didn't have an entertainment lawyer. I didn't know how to find one. I went on Google, I literally typed entertainment lawyer. And I looked through the list. Like, that's how I found an entertainment lawyer. And like I had to learn this industry like seriously from the ground up. And then it took me like a couple of years to truly start to scratch the surface because in Silicon Valley it's very different.

It's way different.

You can like tweet someone, they'll take a meeting. Yeah, it's like, but the dyna— the industry dynamics are different. Like subtle things. Like for example, engineers are kind of regaled as like the most valuable. Okay, well what's the equivalent in Hollywood? That's not obvious from the outside. And, um, what are the, like, cultural mores? It's not obvious. So dude, I'm just at the very beginning of learning this stuff, but it's actually really cool to be a student of a new industry and learn, like, oh, that's how things are done here, and oh, there's actually kind of a reason why.

We've just gotten popular enough now that some of the agents, you know, like the— what's it— CAA, and I forget the other three. Yeah, uh, there's like 2 or 3 of them. Where they're actually starting to talk to us. And I, I'm incredibly turned off by the whole process. I find it to be very off-putting. And I like, I had to remind myself, well, you know, there could be a reason why this exists. And then I start talking to them like, well, these guys seem pretty nice and they're making a lot of sense. But then in the back of my head, I'm like, these people are fucking sharks. They're going to steal from you. They're going to like, so like, like, you know what I mean? Like, it's like this hard dichotomy.

Wait, we got to talk about this. Like, if you ever want to, like, chat about it, because I know, I know these folks.

And do you like it?

Totally legit. Yeah, that's like a weird question. Are they legit? Is like, is a recruiter legit? I mean, it depends for what you're going for.

Yes.

If you, you know, you're in a unique perspective because number one, you have this huge podcast, you and Sean have built this amazing thing and like The personality, the events you've built is like crazy. I mean, I watch from the early days and I've really gotten into your podcast in the last year and I'm just like, oh, you guys are like firing on all cylinders.

You would have no idea what you guys do best. How half-assed it is, by the way. Our events are way more half-assed than you think.

Really? Dude, the photos look incredible.

They're great. They're great. But like, they're thrown together.

Yeah.

Really?

You just show up and just like hang? Fuck, that's insane. Okay. Anyway, it looks great. Um, and then you're, you know, you already have money, so you're not like super profit motivated unless it's like the right opportunity. It's you and Sean, you got HubSpot involved. So there's a lot of unique things, but one thing I learned in Hollywood is take the meeting. Always take the meeting, which is different cuz I turned down 9 outta 10 things. I'm just like, nope, nope, nope. But if you want, it's all relationship based, way more than tech, way more. Um, just to give you an example, a lot of lawyers, um, PR firms in Hollywood, they will not even take your call even if you're ready to hire them. Like, you have a fat check, they will not even take your call if you're not referred by an agent or someone else like that. That's mind-blowing.

That pisses me off. You know, I love Jay Leno. Jay Leno has this— you're not into cars, I don't think, but he's got this really cool show called—

Wait, does having a Honda Accord not count as being into cars?

Unfortunately not, my friend. It does not. But Jay Leno has this thing called Jay Leno's Garage, and he tells you the history of the car and why it's cool. And he's got this funny bit where he talks about Ferrari. He refused— you know, Jay Leno probably has 500 or 1,000 cars, and they're all like historical and important. And he goes— someone was like, why aren't there any Ferraris here? He goes, I refuse to buy a Ferrari. And he goes, why? He goes, because they— you have to get on a waitlist. And you have to like get on a waitlist to buy one in order to buy the next one. So in order to buy, like, for example, let's say there's like a GTO 250, which is like a $30 million car. They only made 5 of them, whatever. It's like this really rare car and it's like art. And he's like, I would love to own one because I think they're awesome, but they make you buy the entry-level one. Then you have to get on a waiting list to buy the next one and you can't sell it. You have to do all these rules. He goes, I refuse to bow down to that bullshit. And I'm not going to play that game. I just want to— I just— now he's like, I realize it's not like the everyman. I'm not like the everyman, but in some regard, like, I just don't want to, like, jump through the hoops. I just want to say, if I'm willing to give you money, please let me have it. And so I refuse to buy a Ferrari for that reason. Same way. And you're talking about Hermès. I'm like, dude, I'm not going to get on a fucking list to buy this shit. That's bullshit.

One day. What's the, uh, let's wrap up here, but tell me what's the, uh, what are the luxury books? I wanna write 'em down. I wanna read 'em too.

All right. So one of 'em is called The Luxury Strategy. Uh, another one is called Kapferer on Luxury. And, uh, those are two that'll get you started. I think those are really good ones.

Cool.

What are you reading right now?

I'm reading a lot of stuff about the mob, about the mafia. Okay. So I like crime stuff. I am, what else have I read recently? It's lots of crime stuff, unfortunately. I'm rereading a book on Joseph Kennedy, Joseph Kennedy, you know, father of JFK. He's a really controversial person. He basically got rich off insider trading, then became the first head of the SEC, made insider trading illegal. Incredibly unfaithful to his wife, but kind of a really good father. So a lot of like interesting things. A lot of people don't know that Joe Kennedy was like the 7th richest person in America. So JFK was like not just wealthy, but really wealthy. So I'm rereading a book on him, and I'm rereading a book on the, uh, American capitalism between 1910 and 1920. It was highly unregulated. So like the Andrew Carnegies of the world, Jay Gould, John Rockefeller. They were really fascinating because it was like super cutthroat. And so I'm rereading about that.

Well, Rameen, I like this. Yeah, dude, I was just thinking, I just wrote a note. I should have a podcast just on books, just asking like interesting people what they're reading and why.

Oh dude, I would, I would love that.

Well, I've just, I'll be your first listener and I'll definitely come on.

That's a great idea.

Yeah. I mean, cause that's always like one of my favorite parts is ask people what they're reading and why. Um, but dude, I appreciate you doing this, man. You're the man. I thank you for your friendship. Thank you for doing this. Congratulations on the show. It's freaking awesome. My wife and I were watching all day yesterday.

Really?

Oh my God. I sent you the video of us. You sent me that.

Dude, to know that you guys are watching this, which I spent like years doing, kept it quiet for that long, and to know that it's like inside your house and the two of you are connecting over it, like, honestly, the highest praise for someone who creates anything. So thank you. It means a lot.

It was awesome. And I appreciate you doing this. Thanks for everything.

Thank you, dude.

That's the pod.

Yeah, I feel like I could rule the world. I know I could be what I want to. I put my all in it like no days off. On the road, let's travel, never looking back.